By Noozhawk|Four-Legged Friends and More|October 1, 2025 9:00 am|
More than 10 million pets in the United States live in households affected by domestic violence, making them silent victims of abuse and often a critical factor in whether or not survivors can escape, C.A.R.E.4Paws reports.
Because for many individuals facing violence at home, the fear of leaving a beloved animal behind becomes another barrier to safety.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October targets these stark realities, along with the urgent need for effective solutions, like C.A.R.E.4Paws’ Safe Haven program and the creation of a confidential, temporary refuge for dogs and cats that ensures people can leave an abusive situation without having to worry about the well-being of their companion animals.
“Since 2020, Safe Haven has provided a lifeline for Central Coast pet families exposed to domestic violence by offering anonymous foster care or boarding for pets,” according to C.A.R.E.4Paws. “Many survivors delay seeking help, return to their abuser or avoid seeking assistance altogether because they fear for their pets’ safety.”
This fear is often well-founded, as 71% of survivors entering domestic violence shelters report that their abuser had harmed, threatened, tortured or killed their pets, according to data from Humane World for Animals.
Safe Haven, in partnership with agencies such as Domestic Violence Solutions for Santa Barbara County (DVS), provides a way for survivors to leave abusive homes without being forced to abandon their pets.
Since 2020, Safe Haven has supported dozens of families, encouraged by evidence that return rates to abusive partners are significantly lower when survivors can keep their animals.
“For many survivors, pets are a source of comfort, stability and unconditional love, and abusers often exploit that bond, threatening to harm animals to control partners and other family members,” said Isabelle Gullö, C.A.R.E.4Paws’ cofounder/executive director.
“Recognizing the deep connection between people and their pets is key to protecting both from harm and giving families a real chance to break free from abuse,” she said.
To expand on the success of Safe Haven, C.A.R.E.4Paws is fundraising to build the region’s first anonymous Pet Refuge, a temporary boarding facility for pets of domestic violence survivors, and, as space allows, for pets of individuals and families navigating other critical life events, including deportation, hospitalization, military deployment, or displacement from disasters, such as wildfires.
The Pet Refuge will house a prefabricated building with 10 indoor/outdoor kennels for dogs, complemented by a 40,000-square-foot exercise yard where they can run, play and decompress.
Cats will be cared for in a separate structure outfitted with home-like rooms to create a sense of normalcy and peace.
During their stay, every pet will have access to veterinary services through C.A.R.E.4Paws’ mobile clinic team as well as grooming, enrichment and training onsite.
Unlike animal shelters or rescue groups, the goal is not adoption but reunification once families are safe and stable, C.A.R.E.4Paws said.
“The Pet Refuge will fill a critical gap at a time when foster placements and boarding options remain scarce — especially for larger dogs and multiple-pet households — and local shelters are crowded.,” the organization said.
“At DVS, we know that healing begins with safety, and for many survivors, that includes their pets,” said Tina Ballue, DVS director of development. “C.A.R.E.4Paws’ Safe Haven program and the Pet Refuge are compassionate and critical resources that ensure no one has to choose between escaping violence and protecting a beloved companion.
“We’re proud to stand with C.A.R.E.4Paws in keeping families — human and animal — together through life’s most difficult transitions.”
Providing families with the reassurance that their pets are safe, cared for and loved makes a significant difference, said Gullö, noting the creation of the Pet Refuge is only possible with the community’s support.
“If we work together to make this happen, we can ensure that no family has to face a life crisis while also having to worry about their beloved animals,” Gullö said.
C.A.R.E.4Paws welcomes support in many forms, including refuge sponsorships with naming opportunities for kennels and the play yard; donations toward veterinary services, food, supplies, grooming, and dog training; volunteering; and in-kind contributions of fencing and construction materials.
The organization is also seeking foster families to provide temporary homes for Safe Haven animals until the refuge opens and for pets who need an in-home environment to heal and thrive.
To donate, visit care4paws.org/donate. For more about the Pet Refuge project, visit care4paws.org/petrefuge.
Survivors seeking support can contact C.A.R.E.4Paws at 805-335-7524 or safehaven@care4paws.org. Anyone in immediate danger should call 9-1-1.